Happy Things

I know, I know. Things don’t make us happy. True happiness comes from our relationships and living in close community, and lots of other things.

But…sometimes you find things and experiences that add to your happiness and interest in life. And these are a few of the things that have been adding to my summer vibes lately.

Finding a v-neck that is inexpensive and comfortable

I feel like for years I’ve been on the hunt for the most comfortable, wearable and cute v-neck tees to dress up or dress down. I love a good v-neck, but they can be tricky to find. I have a few from Everlane that I like, but I just discovered these wonders from Target. On sale, comfy and a range of colors. Score!

Spending cool evenings reading on the porch

I’ve been finding a great way to relax and enjoy the back porch is by spending 30 minutes to an hour outside right before the sun sets to enjoy the surroundings. I grab my current library read and enjoy the cool night breeze.

Discovering new sparkling waters to try

Like many others, I’ve really got into sparkling waters in the past year. What’s really fun is finding various types of tasty waters to try. I just discovered that my grocery store carries Mout Valley’s sparkling water, so I’ve been enjoying a bit of this bubbly water in the afternoon at work. Also, it’s from my hometown, so that’s pretty neat.

A fresh, new computer background

You know that feeling when you find a new desktop background that fits you perfectly?! I just re-discovered some really great ones on Design Love Fest. Check out the lemon one!

New landscaping projects!

I know this is super #adulting, but my husband and I have really enjoyed spending weekend time landscaping. We just extended our patio, so last weekend we trekked to a local landscaping place and farmers market to gather plants, shrubs and herbs to make our yard our own.

What has been making you happy lately?

6 Summer Fruit Desserts


Happy Memorial Day!

I really do love this time of year. Not only is it nice to get a long weekend here and there, but summer produce is becoming available (and my tomatoes and peppers are growing up slowly). And the fruit!

I love how summer moves from sweet strawberries to tart blueberries and blackberries to cool melons and juicy peaches. There’s always some new fruit to savor just as is or cooked in a tasty dessert.

Maybe you’re thinking about what fruit dessert you want to make today or for the next few months. Well, if that’s you, I’ve got a few ideas to get you started on your way!

6 Summer Fruit Desserts

Strawberry Biscuit Cobbler

This dessert is really good with any summer fruit: strawberries, other berries, peaches. Anything fruity is great under this pillowy biscuit topping.

Strawberry Lemon Ice Cream

This ice cream takes a little bit of extra effort, but it is so worth it. The strawberry is sweet and creamy, and the addition of lemon adds a nice tartness.

Gluten-Free Blueberry Crisp

Calling all gluten-freers (and those who like almonds), this is the perfect summer dessert to enjoy with friends and your favorite fresh blueberries.

Blackberry Galette

This French dessert is the perfect “crust envelope” (if you will) to wrap your favorite summer fruits in.

Peach Blueberry Buckle

The name is odd, but the taste of this almond-infused treat with blueberries and peaches is amazing! Trust me, after one bite, you will totally be on board.

Coconut Lime Bars

Grab some zesty limes, macadamia nuts and coconut to whip up these indulgent bars. They are the epitome of summer flavors!

Mother’s Day Memories


It’s Mother’s Day this weekend and while I’m not a mother yet, it’s got me thinking about my wonderful mother and the food-related memories I share with her (which include tea, pie, Southern favorites, crumbles and crisps, Indian food in Myanmar and much more).

In that vein, I asked some of you Facebook friends to share your food memories with your mom, and I just loved seeing the answers.

It’s wonderful to share the love of certain foods and skills making family recipes, but it seems just as important the way our moms make us and others feel. They offer family, comfort and love through food. It’s quite beautiful finding our place at the table, and so many moms are good at making a place for this to happen. And for that we are blessed.

Here’s what some of you said about your food memories with your mom:

Food for the masses! Always feeding 20+ people like it ain’t no thing and deliciously. I realize I get older that it’s really overwhelming for some people to cook for that many but luckily all the recipes I’ve inherited from her make it no big deal- jambalaya, chicken noodle soup, enchiladas, porkchops and spaghetti.

Lasagna and green bean casserole. I remember when I was middle school that was the first thing she taught me to make.

Here’s my recipe for White Spinach Lasagna.

If dinner was taking a while and we were all ravenously waiting in the kitchen, she’d throw in a pint of sliced fresh mushrooms with butter, fry them up, and we’d snack on that while dinner finished simmering or baking. She’d put the frying pan right on the table and we’d gather round with forks, and a few slices of lightly toasted wheat bread to sop up the buttery goodness left in the pan.

Chicken and dumplings, mom made one million times (with fluffy dumplings). I remember she would take the time to let us request what dinner we wanted for our birthdays. When I was a kid, I remember asking for asparagus and seared sea scallops. She obliged.

Chicken broccoli casserole! My mom would make it for me every time I came home from being away in boarding school and college. I can smell and taste it right now!

When I met my husband, his mom and dad often hosted gatherings for their very large family. I observed his mom’s ways and pitched in to help and learned the beauty of setting up a buffet dinner. Things were prepped together, people were allowed to bring side dishes, she set up the drink station so it’s serve-yourself; and put the cutlery and napkins at the end of the buffet so people don’t have to balance them while filling their plates! I’m really thankful for her teaching me about being hospitable, because I’ve made so many good friends by opening up our house in the same way.

Chicken Enchiladas and homemade salsa.

Making pie crust was one of those things I had to learn before I felt like a real adult. Always homemade from scratch crust that is rolled so thin you can see the countertop underneath it. That’s the trick. I learned from my mom, who learned from her mom. Every holiday or family gathering involves pie. We even served 20+ pecan pies at my wedding that my mom and I made in the days leading up to the big day.

Here’s my Pie Crust recipe.

Pie and molasses spice cookies. All pies are judged v. mom’s.

When I think of my dear mother, it’s actually her dislike of cooking I most remember and her hilarious shortcuts. Like using ketchup for marinara sauce for spaghetti. But she did have her triumphs she concocted herself that has made it through two more generations as favorites. Her non-alchoholic version of a mint julep is in no way recognizable to it’s more spirited cousin, but we drink it every St. Patrick’s Day.

Here’s my recipe for Mint Juleps.

The thing I have loved forever about my mom is the way she’s so gracious and accommodating. She may be cooking for four or 30 and tries to make sure there is something for everyone.

Sugar cookies at Christmas.

My Mom was a “foodie” before that was a popular term. She loved to cook and often had fresh baked cookies or some other pastry for us when we got home from school. She was a Southern cook and served fresh black eyed peas, turnip greens and cornbread sticks cooked in a wrot iron pan, with fresh sliced tomatoes and marinated cucumbers. She could fry chicken and make the best roast, rice and gravy. She had the gift of hospitality and always welcomed family and friends in our home. She could also set a beautiful table around which we shared lots of stories and laughter.

Here’s my recipe for pot roast.

Happy Mother’s Day and here’s to many more comforting food memories in your life!

How to Spring Clean Your Life


Spring cleaning!

What does the phrase make you feel? Excited. Anxious. In a state of avoidance?

However the idea of spring cleaning makes you feel, it can actually be a really wonderful thing. I love the idea of taking time to clean, organize and restore order. I firmly believe that if you can put in some effort on the front end, you’ll be much happier and organized on the whole. And now that we’re a quarter into 2017, it’s a good a time as ever!

We just spent a few hours this weekend spring cleaning our house and garage, but today I’m going to share a few ideas for how to spring clean your life over the next few weeks.

Here’s how I suggest starting your life spring clean:

1. Get your finances in order

Take this time of year to make or try to meet some of your financial goals. Have you started a monthly budget yet? Are you hoping to go on a big trip this year? All you have to do is start tracking your money and find easy ways to save (and smarter ways to spend).

I suggest listening to the HerMoney podcast to get new ideas for saving and investing (like putting enough to match your employer’s contribution to your 401K and throwing the rest in a Roth IRA).

2. Make some to-dos and start checking them off

I love a good to-do list. But who doesn’t?! It’s so satisfying making a list (whether it’s what to clean, what to organize, projects to start or new ideas) and then checking off a task. Even if it’s a to-do list for making breakfast or writing thank you notes, it’s still a task completed!

I suggest using this amazing, well-designed online and mobile Teuxdeux list.

3. Implement some Earth-friendly tactics

With having just celebrated Earth Day, it’s a great time to reconsider what type of footprint you’re leaving. Are there ways that you could be more energy efficient in your everyday life? I’m personally trying to use fewer plastic baggies and waste less energy at home.

I suggest looking into using reusable sandwich baggies or seeing if your energy company offers any savings programs like Duke Energy’s Energywise Home (we just signed up!)

4. Clean up your inbox

I don’t know about you, but when I have a cluttered inbox, it makes me feel stressed and like I can’t get on top of things. Again, this is a perfect time of year to go through and organize your emails into folders and get rid of those you don’t need anymore, as well unsubscribe from those you don’t read regularly. Then, you can keep things organized as emails come in.

I suggest using one of these handy email subscription clean-up services to get a head start on keeping your inbox clean.

Good luck on your spring cleaning!

Easter Poems

easter cross

Happy Easter, all! Here are a few poems that I’ve written in the past few years inspired by the Easter season.

Sunrise Service

There seems to be an internal timer
inside of me signaling Easter morning
It must have been all those sunrise services,
my stomach confused why sticky sweet
hot cross buns were allowed so early
My mind caught in the mysterious
wonder of the joy-filled sunrise
Glistening darkness turned to slices of colorful light
and we would clap and sing to welcome it
Our hope
that the sun would show its rays
that our hope would be ever-present
that we would all feel a rising within
So much depended on the sunrise
And so much of me still does


Easter Smell

I imagine the risen Christ smelled like incense
not the hoppy, weed-leftovers type
But the herbal sage and thyme type
that stops and calms you
whisks your thoughts away
to Middle Eastern cups of tea with friends
roast chicken and root veg shared with family
a new herb garden hoping to survive
It’s of the Earth, it’s new while also ancient
A familiar smell that you can’t quite remember
That’s what I imagine the risen Christ smelled like

Travel Week: West Coast

The last post in our Travel Week series is here, and I’m about to finish up a beautiful week visiting Paris, France myself.

Throughout the week, we’ve been revisiting travel posts from the past, and they’ve all been on the East Coast.

Although I’m more of an East Coast gal myself, I’ve definitely got some love for the West Coast. There’s Cali, the PNW and so much more to explore.

With that in mind, let’s get to traveling!



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Bon Voyage!

Labor Day Planzzzz!

pumpkin field nc

It’s almost Labor Day, a glorious long weekend (and the last of the summer). The pumpkins are starting to take shape, and the heat is maybe behind us?!

That’s basically the only reason that I’m allowing myself to use the blog title above. #yolo

What are you doing for Labor Day?

We’ve got a few small plans and a lot of plans for relaxing and Netflixing.


  • Get this Whole Foods deal and grill with family (local cheeseburgs!)
  • Find a TV series to rival Emma (which I just watched while getting through a 24-hour fever)
  • Attend a Mexican Fiesta party with some friends
  • Make these no-bakes or these tahini chocolate chip cookies to take to the party
  • Eat Wavy Lays & french onion dip (because my husband already bought those)
  • Enjoy some rainy days (don’t get too crazy, Hurricane Hermine)
  • Start a new book (just finished this one)
  • Plan out restaurants for our Paris trip in 42 and counting days! (any recs?)

I hope you can find some time to relax and enjoy summer, nature, people, ice cream, tacos or whatever sounds good this weekend!

The Best Thing I Ate This Month

dr. young's pond berry farm in angier, nc


You-pick blackberries, blueberries (I let them pick those) and raspberries


Dr. Young’s Pond Berry Farm in Angier, NC


Going berry picking was one of the treats of my July 4 weekend. On the holiday (which was unseasonably cool and cloudy), I got up early and drove down to pick some berries. There’s nothing like gathering your own sweet, vibrant berries to eat just as is or to freeze to bake into something delicious later on.

A Speedy Southern Biscuit

sour cream scallion biscuits

There’s nothing quite like a Southern biscuit.

Each one is unique (from Bojangle’s to Biscuitville, buttery to creamy), depending on the unique combination of ingredients.

Although normally baking biscuits is no easy feet, this recipe proves that theory wrong.

I introduce you to drop biscuits. It’s a simple and quick way to make outstanding biscuits. Oh and the butter and sour cream makes them good, too.

sour cream scallion biscuits

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The Best Thing I Ate (or Drank) This Month

dirty beetz at fiction kitchen


Dirty Beetz craft cocktail


Fiction Kitchen in Raleigh


This cocktail was as surprising as it was tasty. Beet simple syrup is mixed with vodka, orange and lime to make a healthy margarita of sorts. So light and refreshing!